Divine Love: Muslim-Christian Differences


Loving God in Islam and Christianity

The Christian Concept

Christians consider their faith prototypically a “religion of love”. This is meant comprehensively, i.e. as a religious appeal, and even command, (a) to love God and (b) to love “one’s neighbor”, i.e. all of mankind — friends and enemies as well.

a. Loving God

The Christian command to love God, announced by Jesus, is embedded in St. Mark and reads:

“And you shall love the Lord, your God, with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength; this is the first commandment.” (New International Version, Mark 12: 30)

In the words of Hugo Ball (d. 1927) the faithful are not on the look-out for reasons justifying the love of God. Rather, they: “throw themselves into the love of God like pearl fishers diving into the ocean.” (Byzantinisches, 49)

In reality, this command is not a Christian innovation at all. The same text — verbally — figured already in the Fifth Book of Moses 6-5. Indeed, according to the Bible, God is not only lovable for being gracious, just and merciful.


Indeed, the Book of Songs — being the 5th Book of the Biblical Psalms — is a treasure of lines professing love of God. No wonder the Church incorporated the Psalms into Christian lore, just as the Muslims have adopted them (calling them az-Zabur) as one of the few reliably revealed passages of the Old Testament:

  • I love the Lord because He has heard my voice and my supplication. (New International Version, Psalm 116: 1)
  • Gracious is the Lord, and righteous, yes, our God is merciful. (116: 5)
  • Your commandments which I love shall be my delight. (119: 47)
  • Oh, how I love your law. ( 119: 97)
  • Your commands I have taken as a heritage forever, for they are the rejoicing of my heart. (119: 111)

It will be noticed that the authors of the Psalms well before the Medieval Christian mystics had already reached a level of adoration where loving God and obeying His commands did no longer result from fear but from devotion.

The author of the letter “First Epistle of John” is unknown. He certainly was not the favorite disciple of Jesus known under the name of John, enlarges on this command by saying that: “God is love. He who dwells in love, dwells in God” (John, 4: 16)

b. Loving man

The Christian command to love God is intimately linked to the “second command”, i.e. to love one`s fellow man:

And the second command is alike, namely this: “You shall love your neighbor like yourself. There is no other command greater than these.” (St. Mark, 12, 31)

In the Book of Mormon this command reappears: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew, 22: 39)

Insightful the great Jesuit theologian Karl Rahner (d. 1984) commented this rule as follows: “Love of God can only be realized through unconditional love of one’s next-door neighbor since only that way one can pierce the hell of one’s egotism.” (Warum, 672)

The Gospel makes clear that charity given to one’s brother is a way of loving God:

“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” (Matthew, 25: 40)

This is followed up by a statement of psychological depth:

“If a man should say “I love God” but hates his brother, he is a liar. For if he does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God Whom he has not seen?” (1 John, 4: 20)

c. Peculiarities

In two ways, the Christian concept of love is peculiar:

The Christian notion of loving God is deeply colored by the Christian doctrine of Incarnation which since the 1st Ecumenical Council of Ephesus in 325 implies that Jesus inseparably was both divine and human, figuring among the three divine persons who according to Church dogma form Trinity. Consequently, for Christians the love of God is identified very much with loving Jesus, i.e. a concrete and therefore “touchable” historic personality.

Thus an encyclopedic definition of Christendom reads:“Love, faithfully having become visible in Jesus Christ, is the way towards hope for mankind.”Romano Guardini (d. 1968) went to an extreme when formulating that “Jesus Christ is the essence of Christianity — not an idea, not a program, not an ideology, but a person.” For both quotations (my translation), see Meyers (Note 5), p. 671

This notion is retained in the Book of Mormon where we read: “you must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope and a love of God and of all men.” (2 Nephi 31: 20)

The Muslim Concept

a. Loving God

The climate of the Muslim devotion to God differs from the Christian one because for Muslims God has not been incarnated as Baby Jesus in the manger — cuddly and lovely — but rather remains an awesome Divinity, so close to us that we cannot see Him.

{Vision perceives Him not, but He perceives [all] vision.} (Al-An’am 6: 103)

In short, God is the one beyond time and space whose Being totally escapes our categorization. Indeed, we cannot catch His Reality with the perceptional network provided by our man-made (and therefore “loaded” languages).

In fact, talking about God is a linguistic trap. Ludwig Wittgenstein (d. 1951) was therefore right in terminating his Tractatus logico-philosophicus (first printed in 1921) with the stunning phrase: “Of what one cannot speak, about that one must remain silent” (7)

True, for Muslims, too, Allah is not only transcendent but also immanent since Allah is closer to us than our jugular vein (50: 16). And He has full knowledge of what is in the hearts (or bosoms) of people (11: 5; 42: 24; 57: 6; 64: 4; 67: 13)

Muslims are therefore expected to love God more than anything else. (2: 165)

Nevertheless God remains unfathomable, unimaginable, unseizable, incomprehensible, indescribable. We are told that His are the most beautiful names/attributes (7: 180; 17: 110; 20: 8). But this is of little help because we must not coin any similitude for God (6: 74). It is of course true as well that in the Quran, for instance in the Light Verse (24: 35) and in the Throne Verse (59: 224)

God has given us a self-description. Yet, do we really come closer to the secret when God identifies with the Light of the heavens and the earth? Can we understand any of the divine attributes other than nominalistically, like Ibn Hazm before? Indeed, for he to whom God gives no light, no light whatever has he. (24:40). Therefore, we can legitimately go about defining God in negative terms only, listing what cannot be said of Him: That He cannot not exist; cannot die; cannot multiply Himself since God is a single God. (2: 163; 16: 22, 51)

All this is true and full of complexity. Nevertheless, loving God naively is possible not only for Christians but for Muslims as well since they are aware that God in His goodness is limitless (57: 21) and that His grace overspreads everything. (7: 156)

All Muslims have to be grateful that Muslim mystics — the Sufi movement — have been able on this basis to develop an Islamic mysticism of love in spite of all the difficulties of visualizing God. The Sufi approach is of course highly speculative. But emotionally it is more satisfactory than the cool soberness of the philosophical approach described above.

b. Loving Man

As much as the Christian faith, Islam teaches that the love of God must translate into compassion for man. However, Muslims are a bit more hesitant when it goes to use the word “love”. In general they prefer to designate the same attitude as brother and sisterhood.

Statements on brotherhood in the Quran most explicitly refer to relations between Muslims (3: 103; 9: 11; 48: 29; 49: 10). Even so, the Quran amply makes clear that its basic message is addressed to all of mankind (20: 55; 40: 64; 103; 114), not only by addressing its audience “Oh mankind!” or “Oh Children of Adam!” (2: 168; 4: 170, 174; 7: 26, 31, 35; 10: 23, 57, 104, 108; 22: 5; 31: 33; 35: 5, 15; 49: 13). Indeed the Quran is a clear lesson for all men and a guidance and an admonition for all the God-conscious. (3: 138)

As far as Christians are concerned the Quran does not pronounce an abstract concept like to “love your neighbor”. However, in more concrete terms its verses establish that what is meant is the Christian way. Thus Muslims are urged to do good to their neighbors. (4: 36), show kindness even to (non-aggressive) disbelievers (60: 8), spend on others in charity out of what one cherishes most: (3: 92; 4: 114), and to be just in all dealings, no matter with whom. (4: 58; 5: 8, 42; 7: 29; 16: 90; 68: 34)

If not in wording, in substance these rules add up to a Muslim “love thy neighbor”-command. By ruling out injustice, globally, Islam is commanding justice, globally.

God Loving His Creation in Islam and Christianity

The Christian Concept

a. The idea that God might “love” what He created is not self-evident. On the contrary, one might argue that love establishes a longing and dependency between the lover and the loved one that is irreconcilable with God.

It seems feasible for the gods of Greek and Roman antiquity to pose as goddesses of love and beauty, like Aphrodite and Venus, because in antique mythology human love was a quality of gods.

b. Given the dual nature of Jesus in the eyes of Christians, his love for mankind may be understood more easily by them as corresponding to the human sentiment which all men and women experience. The same conclusion might be drawn from interpreting the history of Israel as a sentimental mutual relationship between a loving God and his privileged “Chosen People”.

c. At any rate, in Christianity the loving nature of God is taken as an essential quality of deity, as expressed in startling fashion: “We love Him because He first loved us.” (New International Version, 1 John 4: 19)

On this basis, Jesus is seen by many Christians as sort of a perfect Sufi. In fact, in much of Christian mysticism was cultivated a startling intimacy with Jesus that for Muslims borders on, or crosses over into, blasphemy.

This was true in particular with the Spanish nun, St. Theresa of Avila (d. 1582) and her spiritual friend St. John of the Cross (d. around 1581). This trend opened the door for a humanization of Jesus, allowing him to be depicted as suffering with man, even now.

The Islamic Concept

a. In the Quran, we are told that God is self-sufficient (64: 6, last sentence). This fundamental self-description definitely excludes that God is in love with his creation the way humans treasure, desire, and miss each other, trying to fuse their self with a beloved person to whom they may become utterly dependent.

God cannot possibly love his creation that human way! Therefore it is safer and more accurate not to speak of “love” when addressing His clemency, compassion, benevolence, goodness, or mercy.

b. This assessment is not contradicted by the many verses in which God is mentioned as “loving” something. Thus it says that God loves:

  • The doers of good (3: 31, 148; 5: 93),
  • those who are patient in adversity (3: 146),
  • those who place their trust in Him (3: 159),
  • those who are conscious of Him (9: 7),
  • all who purify themselves (9: 108),
  • those who believe and do perform good deeds (19: 96),
  • those who act equitably (60: 8).

In all these cases, God “loves” must be understood as God “approves”, “is content with” or “views positively” those who act as described. “Love” here does not refer to emotional involvement.

That this interpretation is correct can be deduced as well from those verses in which God speaks of not loving. Thus we read that God does not love:

“Not loving” here stands for disapproving, condemning, criticizing, rejecting.

c. However, in 19: 96, we do read after all that the Most Gracious will bestow His love on those who attain to faith and do good deeds, in 3: 31 that: {If you indeed love Allah…Allah will love you}, and in 5: 54 that, under circumstances, God will in time {bring forth people whom He loves and who love Him}. Admittedly, these quotations could be seen as proof for a love of God for His creation comparable to the love human beings are capable of. But this interpretation must be ruled out as incompatible with the very nature of God as sublime and totally self-sufficient.


The Christian and the Islamic considerations concerning love in divine context have been shown as not being identical but similar, as was to be expected.

Differences between the two approaches result above all from the:

  • Muslim reticence to associate God with a humanized notion of love,
  • Muslim preference for the term “brotherhood” in most cases for which Christians choose to employ the term “love” (of one’s neighbor).

There is, however, a major theoretical discrepancy between the two denominations in as much as the concept of loving one’s enemy is nowhere to be found in Islamic doctrine (if one neglects certain Christianized Muslim mystic circles).

This difference is, however, more theoretical than real. Indeed, at no moment in history was Christian behavior on the ground determined by their doctrine of loving one’s enemy — not even to the slightest degree. And this observation is not surprising since loving one’s enemy goes against the very grain of people and therefore is nowhere acted upon as a rule. Living according to the concept of loving one`s enemy was given only to a few people of saintly disposition, like St. Francis of Assisi (d. 1226) on the Christian side and Jalal ad-Din Rumi (d. 1273) among Muslims. Their supreme humility and tolerance, their devotion to other men, and their joyous religious fervor were so singular that, as exceptions, they confirmed the rule sketched out above.

This leads me to a final consideration concerning the psychological impact of promoting a rule — to love one’s foe — that is inaccessible to 99.9% of all people. Admitting this situation, Christians might argue that nevertheless we need lofty ideals to strive for, even if they are virtually unattainable. Muslims might reply that it is detrimental for public morality if unattainable rules are promoted which, of course, are constantly violated by everybody in sight, because that (Christian) approach creates a climate of, and promotes, hypocrisy at a massive scale. I share the latter judgment, being afraid that people used to violating basic rules of their professed moral code might become cynical about morality as such.

Indeed there is divine wisdom behind the fact that all religious obligations placed on Muslims while not being easy to fulfill are all within reach of the average believer.

In this sense, too, Islam by being more simple is more sane.


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